Thursday, August 24, 2006

Guess Who Called II and a Post Revisited?

Green Card Gary also known as NWG(Nigerian without a Greencard). Before I left DC to come back to Baltimore last week, I told NWG that I would visit him again. Well it seems homeboy is looking forward to my next visit(?). He even had the nerve to tell me that he wanted me to spend the night. I told him, hell no. I don't think(scratch that, I know) I will not have sex with him any time soon. I didn't meet him with the same intentions that I had for the swinger. Besides, he does not have the look of a man who can work it well in the bed. Ladies know what I'm talking about. I've already told him there is no way I can marry him, but he has taken to telling me he loves me. Actually, he was telling me he loves me after the second phone call. Naja men, please explain, is it normal in Nigeria for a man to tell a woman he loves her so soon after meeting her, and if so, what for. Don't worry about me falling for the BS, I don't believe him.

Remember that post from July about black men hating black women. Well check him out www.blackwomenhateme.com personally I think he has a lot of issues, but check him out for yourself.

17 comments:

Single Ma said...

"is it normal in Nigeria for a man to tell a woman he loves her so soon after meeting her, and if so, what for..."

a green card LOL

The Pussy Cat Bitch said...

I think the guy needs to get DELETED.

Tired of being broke said...

Girl he will tell you anything to get what he wants.
LOL @ calling him green card gary.

beautyinbaltimore said...

@Single ma- You are to funny.
@ the pussy cat- I think you are right.
@ tired of being broke- Thats exactly what he is doing, but I am to old to fall for that crap.

beautyinbaltimore said...

@Single ma- You are to funny.
@ the pussy cat- I think you are right.
@ tired of being broke- Thats exactly what he is doing, but I am to old to fall for that crap.

The Mistress said...

LMFAO at your nicknames for this sucka. You are too funny. This dude is WACK.

tI said...

Hmmmm, LOL....lemme think, did you not go to college? If I had a penny for the number of times I was asked this question, I would be a millionaire by now. Being "African" I was often asked to explain this phenomenon, ummm, like "Africa" is a county.

I don't know why. I once asked one why they did that. His explaination was that women are ruled by emotion, so you have to "attack" the emotion at the root. I fell of my seat dying of laughter. I looked up at him, and he was not laughing....infact the way he looked at me made me feel like I was 10 years old and he had just finished explaining all that I needed to know about the birds and the bees. Pretty funny that you bring that up. I had pretty much forgotten about that and was over the shock after my freshman year in college. I think my most used line that year was; "He said what??"

By the way, the dude from the other blog has issues galore, but they are sooo damn funny!!

nyasha said...

you are the door of opportunity! LOL! i agree with Ti, eventhough i am not African, i lived for 13 years in west, central and eastern Africa and not all men are up front like that, but the vast majority that wants to score are not shy! But in this case of GCG, he is after a green card, no doubt! :D
thanks for visiting btw.

Nneka's World said...

Hehehehe!!!
A green card.
All i say is you better be careful.
He might like you or he might like your greencard

alissa said...

ahahaha... green card gary!

you are a definitely a friend in my head.

A woman on the move said...

I am kind of in that position now. I say kind of because I am slowly trying to wing him off of me. But it was like a week after we started dating informally, and he was already talking about loving me. He’s from Africa- central part I forget what country (it’s not an obvious one).

I don’t know why they feel the need to tell a woman they love them and expect us to fall head over hills?

I agree with pussy cat- DELETE

The Pussy Cat Bitch said...

yes,DELETE his ass!! Im so proud of you girl!

TTD said...

i wouldnt even be bothered listening to his foolishness... you know what he's after..

Nigerian Gal said...

"Naja men, please explain, is it normal in Nigeria for a man to tell a woman he loves her so soon after meeting her, and if so, what for."

I think you know the answer to the question...Its like thinking because you met a guy from some random nationality and you had a negative experience with the one guy and now you question if their neagtive act theit is the norm!

c'mon beauty...as an African and more specifically Nigerian woman it didnt suprise me when a Belize guy that had been eyeing me for days in class did the same thing after 2 meetings with him. I never for once thought it was the norm. Was I irritated? Yes but not suprised. Desperate times call for desperate measures..Dirt bags will emerge and make the craziest requests but one cannot assume that it is indicative of their nationality.

So, with that said Chica...No it aint the norm and I wish you will one day meet a trully noble, honest, educated man(Nigerian if God pleases)with a big DICK( had to throw that in there) THAT WILL ROCK YOUR WORLd AND SPOIL YOU TO PEICES(as I have found) LOL...I hope this dispells any misgivings u have about our Nigerian men for now...I just hope you stop meeting bush Nigerian guys that just make us look bad...

beautyinbaltimore said...

@Nigerian Lady- I in no way am put off on other Nigerian men because of this character. What I maeant was are Nigerian men usually so open with their feelings(if they are true) when they first meat a woman. I've read the blogs of many Nigerian women and they say that Nigerian(those who reside in Nigeria) men are good at toasting women. So I wondered if this is part of the spoiling process.

Naija Gal said...

@ Beauty... I know you are not put off by Nigerian men...

Your Question.."are Nigerian men usually so open with their feelings(if they are true) when they first meat a woman."

You know, I cant speak for all my Nigerian brothers, perhaps that could be something you might want to potentially conduct a survey on and blog about.

Your Question.."I've read the blogs of many Nigerian women and they say that Nigerian(those who reside in Nigeria) men are good at toasting women"

Really? Please point me in the direction of the blog that discusses this...I think all that's overrated. LOL..Don't get me started on the amount of bad toasters I have had!

Men in general will toast and toast you well! Just to get what they want! Men will be men no matter what continent they are from. And please remember that there not everyone who comes from the same country thinks and acts the same.

Again I do hope you meet a feww Nice Nigerian men who are noble and maybe you can better understand that its not the NORM!

I see you cant wait till you move to NY :)...It is the proverbial melting pot...not a heavy concentration of Un-card carrying Nigerian people...Cant wait till you move here, would like to read about your experiences. Good luck!

beautyinbaltimore said...

Naja girl- I am in no way put off of Nigerian men by this dude. I've been with 4 men and three were Nigerian. I'm bigger than that. I asked was it normal because even Naja men with papers are known to do this. I think this is why a lot of African-American women like(some even prefer) to date Nigerian men. A lot of women in Baltimore like the way that Nigerian men toast.