Not. I am to much of a chump to give it up on the first date. The nice thing was he put no pressure on me at all. Now how rare is that ladies. He is a very nice person and down to earth. I felt very comfortable around him. That surprised me because I am the most paranoid person on Gods green earth. So I think it is safe to say that he and I are definitely going to be friends.
Ladies, homeboys body is banging. I give his face and body an eight and half on a scale of 1-10. I am going to hit that, just not yet. I will wait. I think that if(or when) I sleep with him I will finally enjoy sex. We shall see. I will keep you posted.
Ladies, homeboys body is banging. I give his face and body an eight and half on a scale of 1-10. I am going to hit that, just not yet. I will wait. I think that if(or when) I sleep with him I will finally enjoy sex. We shall see. I will keep you posted.
P.S. I noticed that a lot of people didn't want me to do it( sex on the first date). I would like to hear your reasons why you were for or against it.
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eh. i'm just an old fashioned sort of chick. but also, my reasoning is: i think a guy should work for me. i think that these days people give away pieces of themselves too freely. for what? because they feel empty inside? because it boosts their self esteem? because it'll make people like them more?
sure sex is great... healthy... blah blah blah... but i can't see myself sleeping with someone i BARELY know anything about. or that i don't care about. i don't know where his crotch has been. if he does drugs. the list goes on and on. don't get me started on aids, syphilis and all of those other delicious diseases out there... just call me little miss safety. paranoid. snobby. whatever.
but that's just me.
Alissa was spot on with the emptiness inside.
I dont want you to do it because of the consequences of sinning. You are opening yourself up to more dejection and pain. You may feel you dont want a relationship, where subconsciously or not, you really dont want to experience the hurt that may come along with it.
You like him already as a person, as a person you easily warm up to. What if your innate feelings take over and you want more affection after the deed is done. You may say not so now, but no one knows tomorrow.
I think you may be bored and a tad lonely and you need an escape, a release of sorts. Pick up a bible and open up a passage, let it speak to you. Get involved in your community, discover your talent(s) and pursue your passion. Do anything, but dont let your mind become the devil's workshop.
Ultimately, your life lies in your own hands and you will do as you please. Do anything that would make your children proud.
Experience is the best teacher.
I think its personal choice if u feel u are a serious person and want something serious i dont see the point in doing it cos that doesnt determine anything...however, if u wanted something unserious then its up to you whether or not you wanted to do it....(note i am putting the whole old fashioned and sinning view out of the box but taking those into consideration, you know the score)
P.S. Check out the forum I currently have going on my blog for a week. xxx
you obviously have not been to this site:
http://bentoutofshape.blogspot.com/2006/06/what-now.html
http://bentoutofshape.blogspot.com/2006/07/after.html
HINT HINT: Get a vibrator!
LOL @ anon
if you want a relationship..don't do it! see my blog for references lol
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