Tuesday, June 13, 2006

sex with the ex(again)

I had sex with my ex again. I'm not sure why I did it. Maybe because I was horny. Anyway, he went down this time. He actualy did a decent job but I wasn't able to come. Maybe next time he will take me over the edge. We are sort of in a quasi relationship. The big problem we have is that he does not want to wear condoms. It is 2006, if I have sex I or my partner must use a condom.Over a year and a half ago I let him put it in once for 2 min without a rubber, and ever since he has been beging me to do it again. That was dumb of me, I took a chance with my life because that idiot is the type to release a lot of precome. What do men have against condoms? If there is a man out there some where please leave a comment on this topic.

9 comments:

TiffJ said...

Stick to your guns about the condoms! It's not worth the risks.

Nneka's World said...

Yep, agree with Coffee, its not worth the risks.

BeautyinBaltimore said...

@lovelymonami- I keep a box of condoms.I even have a few female condoms I got for free. Unfortnatly, I let my partner put the condom on because I don't know how.

Anonymous said...

Unprotected sex is kind of the holy grail for a lot of guys. When I was in high school it was a status thing. You were hotter if the girls would sleep with you without making you wear a condom.

I think it is a sensitivity thing. You ladies have something like twice the nerve endings than we do. A condom that is going to hold back the ejaculate and not break is going to be a bit thicker.

I don't have a problem with wearing a condom. Sure I like the feel of a woman without it more than with it, but I see the sense of it. It's just not worth getting in an argument over. I can't please you if you're pissed at me. Coming up with a bunch of bullshit to talk a woman into unprotected sex is stupid. I'd rather have my woman than my way.

You know, it could be something as simple as he wants what he can't have.

Kush said...

The only time I go bareback is when I'm in a long term relationship and my partner is on the pill and we've had that conversation about where we've been and I know the results of her last HIV test and when it was etc. Still a risk I know but whats a dude gonna do?

BeautyinBaltimore said...

@ raymond- I wish more men thought like you.
@kush- He said that we should go get tested togeather.I am well aware that it sometimes takes years before HIV can be detected by the test. Therefore, I made it my bussiness to make him use a condom.

Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com said...

Yeah, I'm all about the condoms. The risk isn't worth it ...

Just Thinking Out Loud! said...

I can't say that I have used it all the time but pls stick to condoms. It will save you from a lot of hassles (except u are on pills or something). They don't write disease on people's foreheads. Besides, unwanted kids could be another effect.

I see u're representing Bmore. Love the place but had to leave. Good luck on your quest to move to NYC. Great Great city (interned there for 3 summers), but I personally won't live there. I love to visit or go work there for a while, but that's it. It's too rowdy!

Nice blog 4 sure!

BeautyinBaltimore said...

Stolie- I agree.
Just thinking- Thank you for the compliment. I've come across a handfull of blogers from Baltimore like myself, each of has a different take on the city.