Tuesday, June 13, 2006

sex with the ex(again)

I had sex with my ex again. I'm not sure why I did it. Maybe because I was horny. Anyway, he went down this time. He actualy did a decent job but I wasn't able to come. Maybe next time he will take me over the edge. We are sort of in a quasi relationship. The big problem we have is that he does not want to wear condoms. It is 2006, if I have sex I or my partner must use a condom.Over a year and a half ago I let him put it in once for 2 min without a rubber, and ever since he has been beging me to do it again. That was dumb of me, I took a chance with my life because that idiot is the type to release a lot of precome. What do men have against condoms? If there is a man out there some where please leave a comment on this topic.

10 comments:

Coffey0072 said...

Stick to your guns about the condoms! It's not worth the risks.

Nneka's World said...

Yep, agree with Coffee, its not worth the risks.

LovelyMonAmi said...

No Condom, hey we all take stupid chances right? It's called "human". However, you are to keep certain things in mind, Black females are the fastest growing group of HIV carriers. No, the brothers are not all on the DL. They are just taking stupid chances too.

Black woman are aslo getting Genital Warts aka HPV (which can lead to cervical cancer and infertility), and all kinds of STDs at an alarming rate. Do you also, know that most women who are infertile in their 30's are usually infertile because of the mistakes that they made in their Teens and 20's?

Not getting a regular PAP test. Having one abortion to many (abortions are safe, too many wears on the uterus and cervix). Or, worst of all not treating STDs in a timely fashion... the longer the STD is untreated, the higher the rate of infertility in later years.

Just food for thought.... so keep youor condom drawer stocked! In different sizes, and never let your lover near it.... keep a condom or two under you pillow, for easy access during sex. If you're sexx is so unpredictable keep a fresh on in your purse(s) or under th cushions in the sofa, that way you don't have to waste time looking for one.

Also, learn how to put a condom on him with your mouth. He's wore willing to wear it, knowing how it got on him. Men are visual, seeing you roll on a condom with your mouth, will turn him on like no other!

beautyinbaltimore said...

@lovelymonami- I keep a box of condoms.I even have a few female condoms I got for free. Unfortnatly, I let my partner put the condom on because I don't know how.

Raymond said...

Unprotected sex is kind of the holy grail for a lot of guys. When I was in high school it was a status thing. You were hotter if the girls would sleep with you without making you wear a condom.

I think it is a sensitivity thing. You ladies have something like twice the nerve endings than we do. A condom that is going to hold back the ejaculate and not break is going to be a bit thicker.

I don't have a problem with wearing a condom. Sure I like the feel of a woman without it more than with it, but I see the sense of it. It's just not worth getting in an argument over. I can't please you if you're pissed at me. Coming up with a bunch of bullshit to talk a woman into unprotected sex is stupid. I'd rather have my woman than my way.

You know, it could be something as simple as he wants what he can't have.

Kush said...

The only time I go bareback is when I'm in a long term relationship and my partner is on the pill and we've had that conversation about where we've been and I know the results of her last HIV test and when it was etc. Still a risk I know but whats a dude gonna do?

beautyinbaltimore said...

@ raymond- I wish more men thought like you.
@kush- He said that we should go get tested togeather.I am well aware that it sometimes takes years before HIV can be detected by the test. Therefore, I made it my bussiness to make him use a condom.

FUNKYBROWNCHICK said...

Yeah, I'm all about the condoms. The risk isn't worth it ...

Just Thinking Out Loud! said...

I can't say that I have used it all the time but pls stick to condoms. It will save you from a lot of hassles (except u are on pills or something). They don't write disease on people's foreheads. Besides, unwanted kids could be another effect.

I see u're representing Bmore. Love the place but had to leave. Good luck on your quest to move to NYC. Great Great city (interned there for 3 summers), but I personally won't live there. I love to visit or go work there for a while, but that's it. It's too rowdy!

Nice blog 4 sure!

beautyinbaltimore said...

Stolie- I agree.
Just thinking- Thank you for the compliment. I've come across a handfull of blogers from Baltimore like myself, each of has a different take on the city.